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Polymath Writer, Environmental Consultant, Retired Academic

MY GUARDIAN ANGEL’S LIST OF BLESSINGS: PART 2: FIRST SIX NARRATIVES OF A HALF-BELIEVER 

Michael Pido, January 28, 2025January 28, 2025

Summary

In Part 1, around the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic in 2020, my guardian angel unexpectedly visited me. As we parted ways, he handed me a list of 10 blessings to ponder on https://huescribbler.com/my-guardian-angels-list-of-blessings-part-1/. In this Part 2, I share my narratives about the first six blessings.  Dwelling on these blessings has negated my negative attitude of simply wallowing in my sea of regrets and multitude of misgivings. Indeed, such blessings have somehow compensated for the material possessions that I have never acquired and my ambitions that have never come to fruition.

Contents

  1. Overview of Part 1
  2. Return at Least Expected Moment
  3. Blog Prediction
  4. Narratives of 10 Blessings
  5. Blessing No. 1 – Supportive Wife
  6. Blessing No. 2 – Wonderful Children
  7. Blessing No. 3 – Intact Family
  8. Blessing No. 4 – Great In-laws
  9. Blessing No. 5 – True Friends
  10. Blessing No. 6 – Organizational Membership
  11. Unfinished Reflection on First 6 Blessings

1.   Overview of Part 1

At the onset, my dear readers, I enjoin you to read first the blog’s Part 1 through this link https://huescribbler.com/my-guardian-angels-list-of-blessings-part-1/. This provides the best context for the sequel of my guardian story that you are about to read.

If you prefer to go back to this Part 1 later, let me first provide an overview. My guardian angel visited me around the onset of the coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) in 2020.  Feeling depressed for being a failure in my twilight years, he gave me a list of 10 blessings (Figure 1). Only two key words constitute each blessing.

Figure 1. List of ten blessings given by my guardian angel amid the 2020 COVID-19 pandemic in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines. (Photo copyright © 2023 by Michael D Pido)

He passionately argued that rather than being an eternal whiner, I should be grateful because I am an incredibly blessed person. Moreover, he instructed me to undertake the following chores: (1) ponder on these 10 blessings; (2) write an individual narrative of each blessing; and (3) consolidate them into a full blogging article. Before we parted ways, he signified that he would return to discuss my write-up. No definitive time or place.

Reluctantly, I obliged and wrote my blog’s draft as instructed, albeit in a series of laptop scribbles and mobile phone notes. It was an act of reluctant surrender. Can a mortal human ever win with an angel as a supra-human creature or a celestial being?

This 42nd blog, therefore, is about my guardian angel’s year re-appearance in 2021 when I least expected it. I describe here our interactive discourses about my narratives of individual blessings. Paradoxically, we parted ways – abruptly and unceremoniously – as I was about to describe the seventh blessing.

2. Return at Least Expected Moment

When I completed the full draft of my 10 blessing’s narrative, I anticipated that he would eventually appear. Although COVID-19 pandemic time, I had a special health pass to visit the graduate school where I was teaching and serving as its dean or head of school; I was also permitted to walk around at the nearby sports complex (Figure 2). I anticipated that he might just surprise me in either venue – or even in the house ancestral house again. Yet he did not show up at all for the entire 2020. De nada. While waiting, I revised my draft narratives several times. My mixed feelings of agony, anticipation and excitement started to build up.

Figure 2. The author stretches before a long walk outside of Ramon V Mitra Jr Sports Complex in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines, 2020

Sometime in early 2021, during the second year of the COVID-19 pandemic, I went to Quezon City primarily for my heart ailment’s check-up. (Quezon City, or simply QC is one of the component cities of the Philippines’ Metro Manila, which is the National Capital Region.) My homemaker wife (Lita) and second son (a free-lance architect) nicknamed ‘Jr’ stayed in QC. Nothing eventful happened in the next few days; these would be just routine and ordinary days, I mused to myself.

During one hot and humid afternoon, my wife left our rented flat to do some marketing errands. Using my Bose’s headphones, I listened to my favorite Jose Feliciano song, Love Comes from the Most Unexpected Places. (An internationally renowned musician, Jose Feliciano hailed from Puerto Rico and recorded many globally acclaimed hits, including the now classic Christmas song “Feliz Navidad”.) Before Jr went out to the construction site where he was working on its architectural building design, I requested him to take my photo out of inclination (Figure 3).

Figure 3. The author listens to the song of Jose Feliciano at Quezon City, Metro Manila, Philippines, 2021 (Photo copyright © 2021 by Michael D Pido)

Although I closed the door, I didn’t bolt it. I was left alone at the apartment all by myself. Or so I thought. The song’s rhythmic melody transported me back into my memory lane of yesteryears. With an old flame, I was teleported into an astonishingly romantic, yet melancholic setting. I was singing together with Jose Feliciano, following the lyric’s refrain (Box 1).

Box 1. Refrain part of the song’s lyrics titled ‘Love Comes from the Most Unexpected Places’ by the Puerto Rican balladeer, Jose Feliciano

Love comes in many ways
In lover’s arms and sweet bouquets
But if nothing said
Then nothing’s ever heard
For here I stand
Outside your door
And I’m tryin’ to tell you
Just once more that I love you
I still love you
Oohh Baby I Love You
Hmmmm

I firmly closed my eyes, shut them completely, virtually unmindful of my surroundings – while simultaneously getting lost in both space and time. I never wanted the magical moment to end, savoring every second of such transfixing music that had penetrated my subconscious, enveloping my very soul.

Such a mesmerizing instance, however, came to an abrupt and unceremonious awakening. Without any warning, the melodious music I was listening to was suddenly gone. Why? Because somebody pulled away my Bose’s headphones from behind my back. Instinctively, I opened my eyes and looked back. I was caught dumbfounded: it was my guardian angel! Without me noticing at all, he suddenly showed up out of nowhere – with no fanfare at all.

“G’day ugly professor!” was his half-mocking introductory greeting. He deliberately uttered his words in a heavy Australian accent. He had an unorthodox way of pestering me, the way he did while I was writing my doctoral dissertation during my schooling in Australia. I was annoyed, to say the very least.

“What took you so long, motherfucker?”, I responded immediately, without fanfare. I added that I had been waiting for him. “I have already completed Part 2 of my blog and you are nowhere to be found.” He simply walked before me and gazed at my eyeballs rather intently.

And then he retaliated also unkindly. “You are indeed a despicable mortal. Your reply to my truthful greetings to you is both curt and a profanity-laced statement. It’s truly unbecoming for a professor of your stature. And to even think you are the dean, the head of your university’s graduate school. You are simply a dreadful academician!”

Our verbal jousting continued for several minutes. I even asked him if he was just busy wanking in cyberspace. And then he added, “You are truly a nutty human being, and if I may add, a pervert professor! Anyway, let’s get down to business. Let’s discuss the context and the narratives of your 10 blessings.” Then, he handed me a copy of the parchment paper in earlier Figure 1 that listed my blessings.

3.   Blog Prediction

Before my verbalization and our actual discourses of the 10 blessings’ narrative, he asked me first this question: “What was my prediction about your guardian angel blog, which was the 21st blog uploaded to your website?”. He posed such a question with his back behind me.

All the while, he was fiddling with a hand-held feather duster. My wife often used this household gadget to dust my books and cabinet shelves. A few small feathers gently fell on the wooden floor as he fiddled with it.

Then, he gently turned around and slowly walked towards me. Abruptly, he went to the wooden cabinet. He specifically picked a headgear with large, multi-colored feathers. It was a hand-crafted souvenir item that I bought all the way from Caracas – the capital of Venezuela – when I attended a world congress about national parks in 1992. I was unsure why he fiddled with the feathers of the feather duster and the Venezuelan memento, respectively.

Earlier, I made a print out of my top seven blogs (Table 1). Hence, I was ready to respond to his query by grabbing the printout. “You need not show me your computer print out. I already know its content,” my guardian angel mused. “My question is how long it took for the ‘Guardian Angel’ blog to attain the number one rank?” I responded unenthusiastically that it was less than a month.

Table 1. Ranked order of the top seven blogs uploaded to my website (https://huescribbler.com/). (As of March 2021)

Rank Blog title   Date uploaded
1 My Guardian Angel’s List of Blessings: Part 1: Close Encounter Amidst Covid-19 Pandemic   (note: short textual reference is ‘Guardian Angel’ blog) 16 September 2020
2 The University of the Philippines (UP) Mystique: Is it Real or Just a Bravado? 10 July 2019
3 On Homecomings and Family Reunions: A Reminiscence   13 July 2019
4 On Airport Pick-Up and Dining Out of Children: Relationship Indicators with Overseas Friends? 24 February 2021
5 On ‘Overruling’ Oriental Wives and their ‘Surrendering’ Husbands: Close Encounters in the Midst of Pandemic 28 October 2020
6 Beyond 10,000 Daily Foot Steps: A Positive Health Consequence of COVID-19? 2 June 2020
7 Encounter with the ‘God of Death’? A Bizarre Restaurant Episode in Bangkok, Thailand   (note: short textual reference is ‘God of Death’ blog) 30 August 2019

“What is the reason why this ‘Guardian Angel’ blog has become number one in such a very short period, which is barely four weeks?” he queried while looking at me straight in the eyes. “It’s because I have promoted it more than my other blogs,” I lamely replied. “You are dead wrong, ugly professor! It’s because I have claimed that it will be the frontrunner,” he said with a slight smirk on his face as he elaborated on his point.

“One more question before we go to the narratives of blessings. What is your personal favorite among these top seven blogs?” I replied ‘The God of Death’. “And your personal favorite is languishing at number seven! If your ranking will be likened to an Olympic medal race, your most preferred blog does not even have a medal. Out of contest. It’s not a recipient of either a silver medal or a bronze medal. It’s definitely out of the race in terms of ordinal ranking, statistically speaking.” 

“I am supremely confident that ‘The God of Death’ blog will eventually catch up,” was all I could mutter. “The race is not yet over,” I added. “Don’t count it out, yet. The future is a wide, open field. After all, the game’s not yet concluded.”

He added that it has been quite a problematic and simultaneously taxing chore to interact with me as a half-believer. (Among the many monikers he attributes to me is ‘half-believer’ – believing in a phenomenon’s some parts while doubting the veracity of its other elements.) The fact of the matter was I had serious doubts when he predicted that the ‘Guardian Angel’ blog would be the frontrunner among my other, earlier uploaded blogs.

4.   Narratives of 10 Blessings

Below, I have described my 10 blessings, which my guardian angel sequentially lists. Essentially, he accepted most of my narratives. For a few parts, though, he either provided some additions – or urged me to include either supporting or clarificatory statements. Moreover, both of us went through the entire list, and I qualitatively rated each blessing.

Blessing No. 1 - Supportive Wife

Narrative

Overall, my wife Angelita (Lita for short while others call her Angie) has been a wonderful wife despite our myriad differences (Figure 4). Like many other wives, she nags – and she still disturbs me whenever I want to be left alone amid my writing chores.

Figure 4. Author with wife Angelita as wedding sponsors at San Agustin Church in Manila, Metro Manila, Philippines, 2014. (Photo copyright © 2023 by Michael D Pido)

On a few occasions, she overruled my decisions. (Feminists would rejoice in this aspect!) Otherwise, she has been invaluable, graciously giving up her nursing profession. She has become a homemaker for over three decades to care for me and our three children (Figure 5).

Figure 5. Author with wife Angelita at Opera House in Sydney, Australia, during my tenure as a visiting professor at University Technology Sydney. (Photo copyright © 2024 by Michael D Pido)
Discourse with Guardian Angel

“Your write-up is rather bland,” my guardian angel mused, “It’s like reading a mediocre academic essay. Your prose is akin to a bored husband, who occasionally partakes his oats outside of the house.” Despite the prickly summer heat, I started to feel fidgety, suddenly feeling cold and having goosebumps on my appendages. “Would you like me to re-write?” I apprehensively queried, sensing that he was not satisfied. He advised me to simply let my original narrative stay as written. “I am afraid, though, that you have missed a very important consideration aside from her personal family sacrifices.”

“What did I crucially miss?” I was not sure what he was driving at. “Your wife deliberately chose to stay with you during the crucial moments when your life was at stake.” Suddenly, it dawned on me that Lita was beside me during some life-defining moments. In 1986, when I was inflicted with cerebral malaria (Plasmodium falciparum, F4 category), I was not sure if I would survive that medical ordeal. I wanted to just smash my head on the wall due to my terrible headache and excruciating pains throughout my body.

After my tonsillectomy operation in 1988, I suddenly turned black and blue and she put an airway gadget on my nostril to revive my breathing. And she flew straight away from Metro Manila to Puerto Princesa City in September 2016 when I suffered an ischemic heart attack. My guardian angel added that I was a moron for missing that crucially important element. More particularly, he emphasized that in the list of blessings, he deliberately used the adjective ‘supportive’ to describe my wife – rather than either ‘loving’ or ‘caring’ wife.

“Now, the bottom line: I want you to answer my question with either a yes or a no. Is Lita a blessing to you as a wife?” I nodded affirmatively. “Then that settles it,” he replied. “Check the rating column for the first item on your list of blessings,” he added. I dutifully complied (Table 2).

Table 2. Rating of the first blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife

Blessing No. 2 - Wonderful Children

Narrative

Secondly, we have been blessed with three wonderful children, now all grown-ups. They all completed their university degrees (Figure 6) and are pursuing their respective professions. Mikhail Robert, the eldest at 35, completed his B.S. in Computer Engineering degree at the Philippines’ Mapua Institute of Technology in 2007 as their class’s Silver Medalist. After working with the Hewlett Packard Company for seven years, he later transferred to Accenture, another IT company. In 2020, he followed his wife in the US.

Figure 6. Author with three children during the graduation of Zarina Hannah (middle) for Bachelor of Science in Nursing (cum laude) at the University of Santo Tomas, Manila, Philippines, April 2014. (Left is Mikhail Robert and right is Michael Angelo/JR.

Michael Angelo (31), the second, who is my junior and nick-named JR, earned his BS in Architecture degree at the Philippines’ University of Santo Tomas (UST). He is now a free-lance professional architect who specializes in computerized 3D design. Zarina Hannah (27), earned three academic degrees: B.S. in Nursing (cum laude) in 2014, also at UST, and two more nursing degrees at Charles Darwin University and University of Tasmania, both in Australia. This 2021, she’s pursuing her Doctor of Medicine degree as a full scholar at Flinders University in Australia’s Northern Territory.

Discourse with Guardian Angel

“Do you have any query about my children’s narrative?”, I queried my guardian angel. He said he generally concurred with my write-up, except one. “You have again missed a significant consideration of why I used the adjective ‘wonderful’ to describe your children.”

I moved closer to him and asked why with a puzzled look: “What critical factor have I failed to consider?” At that point, I could not figure out what he was emphasizing. He paused lengthily as if he was a theater actor – while simultaneously fiddling with the feathers of the feather duster and the Venezuelan headgear – who was setting a timing for a dramatic effect to tantalize his audience.

“What makes your children truly wonderful is they have accepted you just the way you are – with all your good traits, liabilities, and imperfections” (Figure 7). You have been an absentee father. Yet despite all your faults and failings as a family man, they have accepted that their dad is a workaholic who prioritizes work over family. Your children have likewise been accustomed that you are quite different from the typical father who works only on an 8-to-5 job routine.” He wrapped up that such children’s acceptance of my characteristics and circumstances also makes me a very fortunate father.

Figure 7. Author with three children at the Lub D Hotel in Makati City, Metro Manila, Philippines, during New Year’s Eve of 2019. (Leftmost is Mikhail Robert; Michael Angelo/JR, author and Zarina Hannah.

The three of them were primarily guided by my wife as they were growing up. I have largely been a part-time father, yet despite that, none of them have ended up as a menace to the larger society where they live. Overall, they have great potential to become effective helpers of humanity through their respective professions.

“Do you agree with me that you have three wonderful children?” He asked me that question while whispering behind my right ear. I could feel the guttural sound of his voice with a chill reverberation in my brain. This time, I simply nodded in agreement, concurring that he was indeed correct. “Then, rate now the second item on the list”. I then provided the affirmative tick as directed (Table 3.).

Table 3. Cumulative rating up to the second blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife
No. 2 Wonderful Children

​Blessing No. 3 - Intact Family

Narrative

My own family originally consisted of five members (Figure 8). We are still blessed to have a relatively intact family among the four surviving members. My late father, Franciso, God bless his soul, already passed away in 1997.

Figure 8. Pido-Daño family at our old house in Sablayan, Occidental Mindoro, Philippines, 1967. (From left to right: Emmanuel [brother], Helen [sister], Angelina [mother], Francisco [father] and Michael [author]). (Photo copyright © 2023 by Michael D Pido)

Our last complete and exclusive family picture was in 1983 (Figure 9). My 88-year-old mother (Angelina, or Helen for short) and younger sister (named Helen but is popularly called Onjie) remain in Sablayan, Occidental Mindoro, Philippines. My 61-year-old elder brother (Emmanuel, a recently retired civil engineer) and his family reside in Quezon City. We are physically separated from one another, as I am now based in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan Province, Philippines.

Figure 9. 25th wedding anniversary of Pido-Daño family in Sablayan, Occidental Mindoro, Philippines, 14 December 1983. (From left to right front: Helen [sister], Francisco [father] and Angelina [mother]; from left to back: Emmanuel [brother] Michael [author]). (Photo copyright © 2023 by Michael D Pido)

Yet we have somehow managed to retain the relatively close family ties. I still occasionally visit them. At times, I called them over the phone or contacted them through private messages or video calls. The children of my elder brother and younger sister have likewise maintained relatively good relations.

Discourse with Guardian Angel

“So, your very own family members do not have any major family feuds or significant quarrels. Is that a fair enough assessment?” my guardian angel queried. “I totally agree with such a statement,” I lazily responded. Since I was in concurrence, he instructed me to just do my tick mark (Table 4). Moreover, he advised me to add the link to my 7th blog titled “On Homecomings and Family Reunions: – A Reminiscence” https://huescribbler.com/on-homecomings-and-family-reunions-a-reminiscence/. The said blog provides the contextual background of our family history.

Table 4. Cumulative rating up to the third blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife
No. 2 Wonderful Children
No. 3 Intact Family

Blessing No. 4 - Great In-laws

Narrative

My fourth blessing is having great In-lawson the side of my wife. I could only say positive words about them. My wife belongs to the large ‘Carlos’ clan that hails from the village of Inagawan, Puerto Princesa City. We affably called our late father-in-law and mother-in-law Tatay and Nanay, respectively.

The names of the five sisters correspond to the first five letters in the English alphabet. As the eldest, my wife’s name is Angelita (Lita), followed by Benilda (Ida), Cynthia (Butchie), Divina (Bonang), and Elvira (Elvie). Their lone brother is Reynaldo (Bugoy). Our kids freely move around with my in-law’s abodes and happily intermingle with the children of my lone brother-in-law and five sisters-in-law (Figure 10).

Figure 10. Eldest son Mikhail Robert (2nd from left) with his first cousins in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines.

My deceased parents-in-law (God bless their souls) were very generous to me (Figure 11). They cared for my family, particularly when I was overseas or during my extended job-related trips. In fact, I stayed with them while they were still alive while our house was being rented out.

Figure 11. My parent’s in-laws with grandchildren at their ancestral home in Tiniguiban, Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines, 20?? Action: find exact year)
Discourse with Guardian Angel

“Your narrative is overall fine,” my guardian angel said. “However, it’s best that you add the kind gestures of your sisters-in-law and brother-in-law. He gently paused as if trying to compose his thoughts. “Never mind for now. Just describe the specifics about their generosity in a special blog that you may craft later,” he casually added. 

Indeed, our three children were recipients of incredible generosity from my in-laws. As the first grandchild, Mikhail Robert was showered with affection and gifts from my parents-in-law. As a clan, we have had many get together despite and/or amid the pandemic (Figure 12). “You better tick now the fourth blessing,” he concluded (Table 5).

Figure 12. Carlos Clan get-together in El Nido, Palawan, Philippines. (author 3rd from left, front row)

Table 5. Cumulative rating up to the fourth blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife
No. 2 Wonderful Children
No. 3 Intact Family
No. 4 Great In-laws

Blessing No. 5 - True Friends

Narrative

True Friends are hard to find, which indeed is my fifth blessing. I have some very close and intimate friends in my professional and business circles who continuously enrich my life. Many have extended their helping hands in times of need and difficulties. I started verbalizing my written narratives as if I were lecturing in a class.

During my tertiary education at the University of the Philippines at Los Baños, we formed an informal social group called ‘The Hijackers’ (Figure 13). We were kitchen boys who cooked our meals – breakfast, lunch, and dinner. As a closely-knit informal group, we had our special initiation rites (including being paddled by pillows!). At present, we are still in touch with one another on occasion either face-to-face or through our Group Chat.

Figure 13. Some members of ‘The Hijackers’ at Room 1208, Men’s Dorm, University of the Philippines at Los Baños sometime in 1979/80 (author is leftmost, front row)

During my previous work with what is now called the WorldFish Center, we had a special circle of people called the Fisheries Co-Management Group (Figure 14). Occasionally, we still gathered together informally for meals or catch up in Metro Manila, Philippines.

Figure 14. Wedding of Dr Robert Pomeroy and Leni Santos (back row) in Davao City, Philippines, in 1990s. (author rightmost, front row)

Within WorldFish, I may single out Gerry Silvestre and Len Garces as two of my closest friends (Figure 15). The three of us and other colleagues often get together for drinks and meals at Greenbelt in Makati City. We’ve worked together in many foreign places, such as Brunei, Malaysia, and Thailand. And we have crafted our very private jokes to simply tease each other!

Figure 15. The author with Len Garces (leftmost) and Gerry Silvestre (center) during a fisheries workshop in Bangkok, Thailand, 2016.

In Palawan Province, I have an exceptionally very close association with three colleagues in the workplace (Figure 16). A/Prof Eva Marie Ponce de Leon and Prof Marissa Pontillas are academic colleagues at the Palawan State University, while John Pontillas was a former co-worker at the Palawan Council for Sustainable Development. They are among my most intimate friends, and our association has spanned several decades.

Figure 16. The author (leftmost) with Eva Marie Ponce de Leon (2nd from left), Marissa Pontillas (3rd from left) and John Pontillas at a Japanese Restaurant, Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines.

“Stop from there!”, my guardian angel spoke in a rather bored tone while simultaneously motioning with his palm.

Discourse with Guardian Angel

“Why did you stop me?”, I queried. “I am not even halfway on my list of friends”. He responded that he already agreed that those I mentioned are among my friends for life. The list, however, is becoming overly long for a blog. “Your true friends will understand why their names are not specifically mentioned in this blog,” he added.

Hence, for lack of material space, I apologize in advance to the other equally intimate friends whom I cannot cite now. These include – but are not limited to – other close friends at Rotary, PSU, former classmates, previous co-workers, and OZOOMS. I also have a special clique of social gamblers whom play with Chinese mahjong and tongits (Filipino version of American poker).

As I was about to tick the 5th blessing, with the Venezuelan head gear now encased on my guardian angel’s head like a crown, he again signaled me to put the motion on hold. “I want you to add to this blog Janet ‘Jaja’ Funtilon (Figure 17).

Figure 17. Author with Janet ‘Jaja’ Funtilon in Cuyo Island, Palawan Province, Philippines, 2016. (Photo credit Janet ‘Jaja’ Funtilon)

“That’s interesting. What’s the rationale behind Jaja’s last-minute addition,” I ask attentively, quite surprised by his interjection. “Jaja deserves an inclusion in this blog because of her unique role in your life for the last 22 years. She not only provides you with a ready shoulder to cry on; she also offers a helpful hand anytime and is an attentive listener. Moreover, she has always defended you against your enemies and detractors.”

He added that Jaja is my ‘consummate loyalist’. “Please explain the meaning of that phrase,” I queried as I have a few other friends who also meet the criteria he mentioned. “It simply means Jaja will remain loyal to you – no matter what crazy thing you may undertake – or any other stupid chore you will ever do. You can practically fuck a lamp post with a skirt in broad daylight and full public view. And despite that embarrassing act, as far as Jaja is concerned, you will remain his beloved Mike Pido!” 

My guardian angel then urged me to tick the 5th blessing (Table 6). Before moving on, he advised me to keep these friends close to my chest as they constitute real treasures – beyond the monetary values of gold and silver.

Table 6. Cumulative rating up to the fifth blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife
No. 2 Wonderful Children
No. 3 Intact Family
No. 4 Great In-laws
No. 5 True Friends

Blessing No. 6 - Organizational Membership

Narrative

The sixth blessing pertains to my Organizational Membership within the Philippines and abroad. Internationally, I belong to three high-profile and prestigious organizations that I briefly describe below. I belong to Rotary, the world’s first service club organization established in 1905. We are a global network of more than 1.2 million neighbors, friends, and leaders who volunteer their skills and resources to solve issues and address community needs. Membership in a Rotary Club is solely by invitation – you need to be sponsored by a member and, more importantly, be unanimously approved by all the other members to get in. I have been a member since 2013 of the Rotary Club of Puerto Princesa, District 3830, Philippines (Figure 18).

Figure 18. The author (leftmost, front row) with members of Rotary Club of Puerto Princesa during a mangrove planting activity in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines.

As a Rotarian, you are welcome to attend any club meeting or activity anywhere in the world – a welcome intruder so to speak. I enjoyed showing up without invitation at Rotary Clubs in Honolulu, Hawaii, USA (Figure 19) and Sydney, Australia, in 2016 and 2017, respectively. I distinctly recall barging unannounced at a Rotary Club’s evening fellowship in General Santos City, Philippines, and was treated to a sumptuous dinner. And the members even gifted me with a variety of take-out food! (Yes, there is a free meal among visiting Rotarians!)

Figure 19. The author (7th from left standing front row) at a Rotary Club in Honolulu Hawaii, USA, 2016.

Secondly, I am a member of the International Union for Conservation of Natural Resources – Commission on Environmental, Economic and Social Policy (IUCN – CEESP).  Established in 1948, IUCN has evolved into the world’s largest and most diverse environmental network, bringing together governments and civil society with a shared goal to protect nature. The CEESP is one of the seven IUCN expert Commissions that provide sound know-how and policy advice to drive conservation and sustainable development. More specifically, the CEESP focuses on harmonizing nature conservation and human societies’ critical social, cultural, environmental, and economic justice concerns.

Thirdly, I belong to the Asian Fisheries Society, popularly called AFS, a non-profit scientific society founded in 1984 (Figure 20).  The society aims to promote networking and cooperation among scientists, technicians and all stakeholders involved in fisheries (including aquaculture) production, research and development in Asia. Its ultimate objective is to enhance food security and income-generating opportunities for fisheries workers via sound management practices, environmentally sustainable development and efficient utilization of the aquatic resources. Among others, I have participated in various AFS scientific conferences within the Asian region. (A Chinese colleague is quite ‘unhappy’ with why I listed Taiwan on my blogging website as a country and not a province of China. Ouch! You cannot please everybody.) 

Figure 20. The author’s ID given his affiliation with the Asian Fisheries Society

At that juncture, my guardian angel again motioned me to stop. It was as if he were a traffic enforcer, using the feather duster as a motioning gadget and urging a pedestrian to stop walking.

Discourse with Guardian Angel

“Your narrative is rather too long,” he said. “Adding details of your other international involvement such as the Socioeconomic Monitoring (SocMon) Network, International City/County Management Association (ICMA), and United Nations Environmental Program – Global Environment Outlook would take up too much writing space for this blog.” He then issued this instruction: “Just be brief in the ensuing description of your affiliation with Philippine-based organizations.” I simply nodded and proceeded as directed.

I remain an associate member of the National Research Council of the Philippines (NRCP). The NRCP’s mission is “to advocate frontier science and humanities research and evidence-informed policies with the highest ethical standards committed to impact national and global sustainable development.” As a charter member, I have been active since 1978 with the University of the Philippines at Los Baños Zoological Society (OZOOMS). The majority of OZOOMS have become medical doctors – and thus – my entire family has become recipients of free medical consultations from them! We have had informal gatherings in Metro Manila whenever an opportunity arose (Figure 21). 

Figure 21. Get together of OZOOMS members at a restaurant in Makati City, Metro Manila, Philippines, 2013. (Author is 2nd from right)

Within Palawan Province, I belong to the University of the Philippines Alumni Association (UPAA) (Figure 22). The UPAA provides various volunteer services to several constituents and clients. Although inactive for some time, I still attend the Brotherhood of Christian Businessmen and Professionals (BCBP) breakfast services. They offered massive prayers for my wife and two children who were infected with the COVID-19 virus.

Figure 22. Fellowship of Palawan Chapter’s University of the Philippines Alumni Association at Palawan Provincial Capitol, Puerto Princesa City, 6 January 2018 (Author is center)

“The reader may readily decipher that you have an extensive organizational network – from the local up to the international levels,” my guardian angel interjected. “You cannot argue to the contrary that this is indeed your sixth blessing. Would you?” I nodded affirmatively. Hence, I simply affixed the check mark (Table 7).

Table 7. Cumulative rating up to the sixth blessing.

Blessing No. Description Rating
No. 1 Supportive Wife
No. 2 Wonderful Children
No. 3 Intact Family
No. 4 Great In-laws
No. 5 True Friends
No. 6 Organizational Membership

5.   Unfinished Reflection on 10 Blessings

As I stared at the old parchment paper, I began to feel a bit of both physical tiredness and mental exhaustion. These first six blessings may be called human blessings as they relate mainly to families, friends, and organization affiliations. As if reading my thoughts, he hummed the lyrics of an old song that says, “Persons are gifts of God to me that come all wrapped so differently.” Four more blessings to be narrated would wrap up my session with him.

As he was about to speak further, his motion was suddenly stalled.  As if his body was sprayed with invisible sheets of ice, just like in the 2013 movie titled Frozen. Then, my guardian angel’s body started to violently shiver as if he was convulsing from an unknown medical ailment. 

“What ills you, man?” I worriedly queried. Medically, I could relate as I experienced the same uncontrolled shivering when I got infected with cerebral malaria in the 1980s. “Got to go now, my Archangel is summoning me,” he replied hurriedly.

“We aren’t done yet,” I replied in a mixture of appeal and annoyance. “I still need to describe the last four blessings. But my appeal to my guardian angel was useless; it was utterly pointless. Instantaneously, he was airborne.

The image was like an Olympic diver who somersaults himself in the air on the way down to a deep swimming pool. “Catch you later, ugly professor!” he shouted half-mockingly. I immediately retaliated with my verbal tirade in a shouting voice: “Hey dick head! Let’s properly wrap these first six blessings before you go.”

To my utter amazement, he flew through the jalousie window (Figure 23). I mean he passed through it without breaking the glass partitions. The scene was simply magical – outstandingly mesmerizing, to say the least.

Figure 23. Guardian angel passes through glass jalousie windows of apartment in Quezon City, Metro Manila, Philippines (Drawing copyright © 2023 by Michael D Pido)

Again, in a blur, he was gone into the netherworld – as fast as he had appeared. This time, though, some feathers from his wings were left as sort of evidence trails. Such plumage remnants were mixed up with those feathers from my wife’s feather duster and the Venezuelan headgear’s feathers.

“This is a ridiculously insane moment,” I muttered to myself. I did some deep breathing actions a few times, trying to compose my thoughts and holding on dearly to my sanity. In exasperation, I shouted at the top of my voice: “Come back here, you imbecile m©therfu*ke#!”

As my loud, reverberating voice faintly faded in the air, the room’s door suddenly swung open. And an even more familiar being just showed up from nowhere!

P.S. Watch out for the even more exciting Part 3. It will be uploaded very soon this February 2025!!!

An Afterthought for Readers:

How did you find this Part 2 of my Guardian Angel blog series? Based on the Judeo-Christian tradition, each human being is born with an accompanying guardian angel. Have you seen yours – or have you ever encountered one in your entire life? Or do you even believe that these celestial creatures or godly beings exist at all?

I would appreciate it if you could also share your feedback on the blog. In this way, this website becomes interactive with the readers.

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  2. Collen Pagaduan says:
    January 29, 2025 at 2:20 pm

    Sir Mike, you really have a way with words! Aside from the obvious intellectual prowess, your writing style tugs at the heartstrings. Made this reader laugh at one moment, and then shed tears in the next. Looking forward to part 3!

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    1. admin says:
      January 31, 2025 at 2:05 pm

      Hi Atty Collen – Thank you for finding the time to read and share your feedback. I am honored when you say I “really have a way with words”. How I wish that trait has enabled me to win more female species! Anyway, I look forward to a night out with you and Atty Benj. Take care for now.

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  3. Genn Nagales says:
    January 31, 2025 at 10:53 am

    Very interesting! This is a comforting notion that we’re never alone and that we’re truly blessed because of the people around us. I remember when I was in high school, one of my favorite books was “When Angels Appear”. It’s a Christian book about stories of people who had real encounters with angels. I can’t find that book anymore—maybe someone borrowed it. 🙂 Well, I believe in God, and I believe in angels! By the way, what’s the name of your guardian angel, Sir Mike? :):):)

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    1. admin says:
      January 31, 2025 at 2:11 pm

      Hi Doc Genn – Thank you very much for sharing your insightful feedback. I shall read the angels book that you mentioned. At the moment, my guardian angel prefers that his name remain anonymous. Cheers for now.

      Reply
  4. Yuj De Chavez says:
    February 7, 2025 at 10:07 pm

    This is such a beautiful reflection Sir Mike. It really reminds me to appreciate the intangible gifts in life that often hold more value than material possessions.

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    1. admin says:
      February 8, 2025 at 2:22 am

      Hi Yuj – Thanks a lot for liking the reflection. I agree with you that we often fail to recognize the many incredible blessings that are just in front of us.

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1AustraliaOceaniaTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsThe Wrong ‘Dead Man’ Movie in Brisbane, AustraliaOne should pay particular attention to the full title of a movie before purchasing a ticket at the booth. Otherwise, there could be an embarrassing consequence when you actually watch the film. In 1996, I entered the wrong movie house in Brisbane, Australia, because of the confusion regarding ‘Dead Man’ title.30 June 2019
2ChinaAsiaTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsCandid Sharing about Sex: A Discourse among Asian Professionals in Beijing, ChinaIf you perceive that Asians are conservative about sex, think again. These conversations among professional academicians, researchers and scientists suggest that they are as liberated – if not at par – with their more open-minded westerner counterparts. It happened in Beijing, China, in October 1995. 3 July 2019
3EnglandEuropean UnionTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsOn Using an Automated Public Toilet: A tragi-comedy in Ashford, Kent, EnglandDue to an unavoidable need in 1989, I was forced to use an automated public toilet for the first time. This incident took place in Ashford, Kent, England. Tinkering with the toilet’s electronic gadgets, however, resulted in unintended, yet humorous consequence.3 July 2019
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5CambodiaAsiaTheme 6: Foodies & Culinary DelightsReasonably-Priced Culinary Delights in Siem Reap, Cambodia: A Family SharingDuring our family of five members’ travel to Siem Reap, Cambodia, on December 2018, we spent on the average US$20 per meal, including drinks. The amounts of our family meals ranged from US$15 in street food stalls up to US$30 in not so pricy restaurants. Hopefully, this travelogue may help as a reference guide to those traveling families with limited budget for food.7 July 2019
6PhilippinesAsiaTheme 4: Education & Academic MusingsThe University of the Philippines (UP) Mystique:
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7CambodiaAsiaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsA Bizarre Promenade in the Streets of Phnom Penh, CambodiaDue to job and other circumstances, members of a once intact family separate to pursue their own ways. During our college days starting in 1977, my brother and I always look forward to our planned family reunions every Christmas and/or summer break. Once we started working in 1981, though, our reunions became less frequent. It even became rarer when our late father passed away in 1996. Our unexpected and unannounced family gathering a year later is something unique among all other reunions – and indeed something to reminisce.13 July 2019
8CambodiaAsiaTheme 13: Scary Moments & Fearful SituationsA Bizarre Promenade in the Streets of Phnom Penh, CambodiaIn 2000, I experienced a bizarre promenade in Phnom Penh, Cambodia’s capital city, whereby the motorcycle driver (siklo) circled me around for over half an hour to find my hotel. Earlier, I was scared when two strangers followed me. Hence, riding in siklo around the strange parts of the city at midnight time to find my hotel made me even more apprehensive.18 July 2019
9CanadaNorth AmericaTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsLost in Translation: A Strange ‘Band’ in Vancouver, British Columbia, CanadaDuring my maiden 2001 trip to Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, I mistook a conference participant as a musician. This was because the word ‘Band’ was printed in his conference ID, not knowing that it refers to his tribal or ethnic affiliation. Lesson learned: a seemingly very familiar English word may have multiplicity of meaning depending on where and how it is spoken.21 July 2019
10VenezuelaSouth AmericaTheme 10:Humor & Funny IncidentsHoly Shit! Toilet Mishap at a Five-Star Hotel in Caracas City, VenezuelaThis humorous incident was literally associated with shit – defecation to be blunt about the term. Such toilet mishap occurred in 1992 at a five-star hotel in Venezuela’s capital city.24 July 2019
11ChinaAsiaTheme 7: Misfortunes & Sad MomentsThe Controversial Convention Center in Beijing, ChinaTaxi drivers at times – knowingly or unwittingly – pretend to know the exact destination that the passenger wants to go. In China in 1995, our taxi driver brought us to a wrong venue half an hour away: a ‘Convention Center’ instead of ‘Beijing International Convention Center’.28 July 2019
12TaiwanAsiaTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsThree Kilogram Scallop? A Restaurant Language Mishap in Taipei, TaiwanEnglish translation in foreign lands are sometimes problematic. At a restaurant in Taipei, Taiwan in 1994, we ordered scallop. But what was delivered after a long wait was a three-kilogram fish!4 August 2019
13USANorth America Theme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsA Tale of Midnight Hunger: My Maiden Overseas Trip in Honolulu, Hawaii, USAI never anticipated that the first night of my very first foreign travel – in Honolulu, Hawaii, USA in 1987 – would be filled with hunger-related awkwardness. I had no choice but to request my benefactor to fetch me at midnight time. And it all started with a simple, unwanted nap. 23 August 2019
14ThailandAsiaTheme 13: Scary Moments & Fearful SituationsEncounter with the ‘God of Death’? A Bizarre Restaurant Episode in Bangkok, ThailandOn 1 February 2016, while taking a late family breakfast at Prachak Pet Yang in Bangkok, Thailand, I suddenly felt an excruciating stomach pain. This was followed by a combined massive perspiration and dizziness. Without warning, I sensed that I was ‘teleported’ at the sole movie house at my home town in Sablayan, Occidental Mindoro, Philippines. To my horror, what was shown was a motion picture ‘flash back’ of my life starting when I was a toddler. I shouted to stop and was brought back to my senses through the tugging of my daughter.30 August 2019
15AustraliaOceaniaTheme 10: Humor & Funny IncidentsNew Year’s Eve University Locked-in: Electronic Mishap in Townsville, Queensland, AustraliaAt the end of the year, one must be particularly careful when using a swipe card to get in and out of a room. Otherwise, you might become an unwilling prisoner. A bizarre ‘lock-in’ experience happened to me in 1997 at James Cook University in Townsville, Queensland, Australia.5 September 2019
16TaiwanAsiaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous TopicsAre all Visa Equal? A Hypothesis of Our 2016 Family Experience in TaiwanWhen our family of five members decided to spend part of the 2016 Christmas break in Taiwan, we all prepared our documents to secure our individual visa. We were surprised, therefore, when only our son (Jr.) was required to secure a Taiwanese visa. The simple reason is possession of recent visa from two developed countries: both my wife (Lita) and daughter (Hannah) possessed Australian visa; my eldest son Robert had a US visa; and I held both US and Australian visa.4 November 2019
17IndonesiaAsiaTheme 7: Misfortunes & Sad Moments
The Lightning Struck Twice! Unlucky ‘Floor Manager’ in Ambon and Jakarta, Indonesia
This humorous case happened in 1994 at Jakarta and Ambon, Indonesia, when we undertook the field testing of a fisheries guide we have developed. As the designated team leader, I could have secured a bed for myself first and let my two other colleagues sort between themselves who will get the other bed. Instead, I opted to be democratic by having a ‘game of sticks’: whoever gets the shortest one would be the loser. For such a chivalrous act, I ended up sleeping on the floor not once, but twice!21 November 2019
18Philippines AsiaTheme 6: Foodies & Culinary DelightsFoodies in Majestic Coron, Palawan Province, Philippines:
A Serial Traveler’s Recent Gastronomic Sampling
Coron as the northern gateway in Palawan Province, the Philippines, is famously known for its majestic tourist attractions such as the serene Kayangan Lake, colorful reefs and fishes of Siete Pecados, and spectacular diving crevices at sunken Japanese ships. Yet there are still limited directional articles on where to indulge one’s palate after visiting such tourist sites. I have visited Coron at least 10 times over the last 20 years for various chores – and have done bits of gastronomic adventures on the side. Hence, what I provide here are tidbits of experiential information about food (including relative prices) during my most recent trips: June 2018 and January 2019. This article is a quick reference guide (not exhaustive!) for busy travelers about sample dining places within Coron’s Central Business District covering breakf29 January 2020
19EnglandEuropean UnionTheme 6: Foodies & Culinary Delights‘Spotted Dick’ on Christmas Eve!
A Fascinating Discovery in Wye Village, Ashford, England
During Christmas of 1988 at Wye Village, Ashford, Kent, England, a benevolent English couple (Peter and Cindy) invited me and my Ugandan classmate (Hakuba) to join them for Christmas dinner. Back then, we were both postgraduate students at the University of London’s Wye College. After partaking the main course, Peter graciously asked us to try his ‘spotted dick’. Hearing such a phrase for the first time – or we did not understand his pronunciation properly – we were puzzled if he was asking us to try out his penis! It was only when we actually saw the real spotted dick that we realized our new culinary lesson in a rather humorous way.17 February 2020
20Philippines AsiaTheme 5:
Family, Friends & Relationships
Beyond 10,000 Daily Foot Steps:
A Positive Health Consequence of COVID-19?
If one walks 10,000 steps per day, that person could be burning enough calories to lose weight. After trying this technique for 123 days – from 13 January 2020 to 14 May 2020 – I have attained a daily average of 10,050 steps. The consequence: I lost 6 kilos! I intend to maintain this daily average and combine it with a healthier diet. Hopefully, I shall lose more unwanted weights by the end of this COVID-19 pandemic. 2 June 2020 (1st COVID-19 Diary)
21Philippines AsiaTheme 2: Adventures & ThrillsMY GUARDIAN ANGEL’S LIST OF BLESSINGS: PART 1: CLOSE ENCOUNTER AMIDST COVID-19 PANDEMICWhile Corona Virus Disease 19 (COVID-19) pandemic has brought disruption in our family and work, it has also provided ample time to reflect on our lives while working from and/or staying at home. One afternoon, my guardian angel visited me unannounced while I was feeling depressed for being a failure in my twilight years. To argue that I was wrong, he handed me a list of my 10 incredible blessings. I am sharing my close encounter with him, and the eventual gentleman’s deal that we have agreed at.16 September 2020 (2nd COVID-19 Diary)
22Philippines AsiaTheme 11: Misfortunes & Sad Moments
On Being Fast Versus Being Rich:A Brief Discourse On Being Respectful to StrangersDon Vito Corleone, the central character of The Godfather (1969 Book of Mario Puzo), reminded his underlings to be respectful of the strangers that they meet. In this context, an arrogant guy ‘outmaneuvered’ an unassuming lady to get the lone parking slot at an elite Sports Club in Metro Manila, Philippines. Find out what she did to his brand-new Mercedes Benz.30 September 2020 (3rd COVID-19 Diary)
23Philippines AsiaTheme 6: Misfortunes & Sad Moments
Health & Wellness
On Long Walk, Massage, Banana and Lemon:
Can Pleasures be Either Free or Cheap?
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24Philippines AsiaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsOn ‘Overruling’ Oriental Wives and their ‘Surrendering’ Husbands: Close Encounters in the Midst of PandemicThe traditional dominance of Oriental husbands seems to be fading fast. Their wives are now demanding not only parallel gender status but equal rights and opportunities as well. Moreover, Oriental wives at times may go overboard to either ‘overrule’ their husbands’ wishes – or enjoin them to ‘surrender’ to their whims. In this context, I am sharing two close encounters of my brother-in-law and myself with our wives in the midst of COVID-19 pandemic.28 October 2020 (5th COVID-19 Diary)
25Philippines AsiaTheme 7: Family, Friends & Relationships On 200+ Birthday Anniversary Greeters: Who Enlivened my Last ‘Junior’ Year CelebrationWhen I celebrated my 59th birthday anniversary last 24 January 2021, I was
ecstatic when 200+ co-workers, family members, friends, professional
associates, relatives, and students greeted me. Although the majority came
from the Philippines, some 50 well-wishers were from overseas. They
conveyed their greetings through emails, face-to-face greetings, messenger,
phone calls, and text notes. Their messages revolved around these themes:
health, happiness, longevity, safety, and success. I sincerely thank them for
making my last year as a ‘junior’ truly memorable – as I will become a ‘senior’
by 2022!
3 February 2021 (6th COVID-19 Diary)
26Australia, Malaysia and PhilippinesAsia-OceanaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsOn Airport Pick-Up and Dining Out of Children: Relationship Indicators with Overseas Friends?What kind of hospitable gestures would your intimate foreign friends extend to your children when they visit their home countries? Given that context question, I am sharing two stories about three overseas friends who went out of their way not only to pick my children at the airports – but dined them out as well. The first incident involving my eldest son, Mikhail Robert, happened in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia. The second circumstance was about my only daughter Zarina Hannah in Sydney, New South Wales, Australia.24 February 2021 (7th COVID-19 Diary)
27AustraliaOceanaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous Topics Can you Guess the Kendo Teacher? And the Folly of our Intuitive Thinking
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28Philippines AsiaTheme 12:
Rotary & Volunteer Services
Rotary as Effective COVID-19 Volunteer Service Provider: A Reflection on a Rotary Club of Puerto Princesa Initiative
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29Philippines AsiaTheme 5:
Family, Friends & Relationships
On ‘Queen Sacrifice’ Move: And the Tale Of Messy Dining Table and Dirty Dishes
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30Philippines AsiaTheme 3: Culture, Customs & TraditionsA Reflection on Expressing Gratitude: With Examples in An Academic EnvironmentGratitude is an expression of thanks to whoever has done us a favor. We often forget to express our gratitude because: (1) we are unsure of how to do it; and (2) we tend to forget as other pressing concerns overtake our lives. I provide here a reflection of expressing gratitude with examples in an academic environment. Being acknowledged for even little gestures of assistance is among the ‘highs’ of an academic administrator.25 August 2021
31North KoreaAsiaTheme 15: Tourist Destinations & Iconic SitesThe Fascinating North Korea: Part 1 – A Prelude To An Unforgettable CountryAmong the 32 countries I visited, North Korea stands out as the most unforgettable. I went there twice, yet I don’t have a single photo of myself ever being there! Would you believe that I was conducting an integrated coastal management training at its cultural coastal city of Nampho during the world-changing 9/11 attack in the US? This blog is just my prelude to this fascinating country. Four more thematic blogs are upcoming.3 March 2022
32Philippines AsiaTheme 9: History Events & Figures24 Hours With Fidel V Ramos:
Remembering The Enigmatic 12th Philippine President
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33USANorth AmericaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsOn Dutiful Wife’s Dietary Directive: And Crafty Husband’s Ingenious AdherenceWhen I visited our son’s family in Frisco City, Texas, USA, my wife issued one dietary instruction. I should eat more fruits and veggies, refrain from consuming red meat, and avoid in-between meals. As a carnivore with occasional gluttonic lapses, I reckon that her directive was next to impossible. Hence, when she finally tracked me during our breakfast on 9 November 2022, I sent her real photos – albeit with inconspicuously-hidden tricks.4 December 2022
34USANorth AmericaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsOn Sharing of Toothbrush: Ultimate Expression of a Couple’s Comfort Level?Couples do share many personal items that include clothes, foot wears, kitchen utensils, mobile phones and even social media accounts. Among the personal stuff, though, toothbrush seems to be the most difficult item to share. Hence, those partners who are able to share a toothbrush may be considered as the most intimate – if not, the most comfortable with one another.12 January 2023
35USANorth AmericaTheme 9: Education & Academic Musings‘Bridge May Ice in Cold Weather’: A Grammatically Wrong Road Signage in Texas, USA?In countries where English is not the native language, we sometimes see signages with grammatically incorrect phrases or mistranslated statements. During my 2022 trip in Texas, USA, I often saw on the highways signages in triangular orange boards that read: ‘Bridge May Ice in Cold Weather’. While the message to motorists is clear, the statement appears to be grammatically incorrect as ‘ice’ is a noun and not a verb. What is your take on my argument?24 January 2023
36USANorth AmericaTheme 14: Sustainable Development & EnvironmentLakes and Canal Systems in Modern Urban Housing Communities:The Case of Phillips Creek Ranch in Frisco, Texas, USAMan-made lakes and the associated canal systems are becoming innovative features in modern urban housing communities. These freshwater bodies provide multiple functions, such as flood drainage basins, fishing areas, recreational sites and wildlife habitats. Moreover, they enhance the human settlements’ landscape ecology. I provide a perspective based on my walk-throughs of Phillips Creek Ranch – a modern urban housing community with man-made lakes and canal system –located in Frisco City, Texas, USA.24 February 2023
37Philippines AsiaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous TopicsThe Brown Dog with No Name –
With Two Awesome Survival Strategies
M
Urban stray dogs are amazing animals that display awesome survival strategies. While eating a hamburger sandwich outside a sports complex in Puerto Princesa City, Palawan, Philippines, a brown dog amiably sat right in front of me. Since its demeanor was meek, I gave it two small pieces of my sandwich. After eating, the dog abruptly gazed at me with deadly stares – the body and ears stiffened, the tail wagged wildly, and the mouth opened, showing its sharp incisor teeth. Surprisingly, the dog suddenly turned around and ran away quite fast. Intrigued? Read the blog to find out the reason.23 May 2023
38USANorth AmericaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsThree of Them: Our Children’s Amazing Tale of Love for One AnotherOur three professional children (Mikhail Robert, 37, computer engineer; Michael Angelo Jr, 32, architect; and Zarina Hannah, 29, medical doctor) are closely-knit siblings. While in Texas, USA, Mikhail Robert was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor (butterfly glioblastoma) in September 2022. He underwent four surgeries, completed radiotherapy, and is undergoing chemotherapy. Zarina Hannah visited him twice coming from Australia, while Michael Angelo Jr flew from the Philippines. I share our children’s amazing story of love for one another amid this difficult medical circumstance.16 October 2023
39Philippines AsiaTheme 6: Foodies & Culinary DelightsOn Spy Wednesday’s Instantly-Granted Breakfast Wish: A Sheer Coincidence – or a Manna from Heaven?Waking up late and hungry on Spy Wednesday, 27 March 2024, I suddenly craved to eat corned beef for breakfast. Nonetheless, I was too lazy to either cook or to drive to a restaurant. Walking at the house’s veranda, I saw a covered plate. The content was a complete breakfast set: rice, corned beef, and egg, a compliment of my sister-in-law! A sheer coincidence, an instant miracle – or just being lucky? Whatever you believe, I contend that we should be more grateful for the daily inconspicuous blessings we receive.10 April 2024
40Philippines AsiaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous TopicsMy Unusual 2024 Decluttering Journey: Starting with a Seemingly Mundane Yet Dreadful-looking Pen Holder!Decluttering became my primary 2024 New Year’s resolution in response to my messy living space. Being a sentimental person, I’ve had difficulty throwing away the stuff I have accumulated through the years. As an experiment in decluttering, I have combined the Japanese housekeeping technique with three screening questions. I started with the seemingly mundane yet dreadful-looking pen holder on my evening desk. And I was utterly amazed at the unexpected result: I’ve been hoarding a bunch of space-consuming and disposable items!27 July 2024
41Philippines AsiaTheme 5: Family, Friends & RelationshipsLove and Care in Baguio City, Philippines: An Amazing Auntie-Nephew Connection After A Health ScarePrior to lunch during our extended family get-together in Baguio City, Philippines, Jr suddenly called to relay a dreaded news. His elder brother, Ook, suffered an unexpected seizure and became unconscious while finishing their lunch. My wife and I rushed at Chaya Restaurant where the paramedics were still attending to Ook, and later transported him to the Baguio General Hospital. Ook’s medical emergency disrupted the lunch and tour schedules. Instead of joining the tour, her Auntie Butchie decided to stay with us and volunteered to fetch Ook when he was discharged. I share a narrative of Ook’s dramatic bonding moments and his special relationship with Auntie Butchie. Moreover, I express the significance of family support particularly during a medical emergency.01 October 2024
42Philippines AsiaTheme 2: Adventures & ThrillsMy Guardian Angel’s List Of Blessings:
Part 2: First Six Narratives Of A Half-Believer
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43Philippines AsiaTheme 7: Family, Friends & RelationshipsSix Cakes, One Milestone Journey: Reflections on My 62nd Birthday
I only expected one group post-birthday cake for my 62nd birthday on 24 January 2024. Surprisingly, I received five more birthday cakes: one before my birthday; two during my birthday; and two more after my birthday. This blog provides the chronology of my birthday-related events and my gratitude reflection for being blessed with these six amazing birthday cakes.07 February 2025
44USANorth AmericaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous TopicsHow Michael Jordan and Dennis Rodman Went from Fierce Rivals to Iconic Teammates — And the Apology That Made It Happen
The act of apology – particularly verbalizing with eye contact the words “I am sorry” – is among the most difficult chores. I share here the intriguing case of Dennis Rodman (NBA’s best rebounder), who apologized to Michael Jordan (basketball GOAT) in an unorthodox verbal manner about his mistake. I reflect that aside from the sincere act of apology, the more important consideration is the follow-up action to address the concerned issue.14 February 2025
45Philippines AsiaTheme 16: Unclassified & Miscellaneous TopicsThe Vicar of Christ After Pope Francis: Breaking Down the Odds for the Filipino Candidate - Cardinal TagleThe prominent 67-year-old bishop from the Philippines – Cardinal Luis Antonio Gokim Tagle – appears in most lists of possible successors of Pope Francis. He has the necessary academic and experiential qualifications and a vast network of supporters. Moreover, he possesses the mass-appeal traits of Pope Francis, such as being down-to-earth and likable, and he has a keen sense of humor. As a Filipino, I would be very proud if he were to become the next pope. As an aficionado of history, however, I reckon that there are four critical factors that may not favor his candidacy concerning the church’s weight of tradition. Cardinal Tagle is ahead of his time as the Papal Conclave appears not yet ready to elect its primo papa marrone – the first colored pope.07 May 2025
46Philippines AsiaTheme 9: Education & Academic MusingsThe Night Shredder: Confessions of a Repentant Paper HoarderHow Michael Jordan and Dennis Rodman Went from Fierce Rivals to Iconic Teammates — And the Apology That Made It Happen
As an avid reader, I have been accumulating a variety of documents: virtually everything from books and reference materials to loosely bound reports and assorted magazines. Coupled with my hoarding mentality, I am literally getting buried in an avalanche of accumulated papers! I have recently discovered that a shredding machine may effectively solve this concern. Every night – as a recent retiree – I sort a few files and shred at least one paper. I hope to develop this nightly shredding into a sustainable habit so my family will have fewer papers to dispose of when my mortal body leaves this earth!16 May 2025

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